PinnedMember-onlyWe Are The Girls Who Were Not KilledIn the days when we were young and free at 12 or 14 or 22 or somewhere in between, we walked and danced and ran and sang and we were the girls who were not killed. We went to the mall with our best friend, just two blonde girls or…Short Story3 min readShort Story3 min read
May 27Member-onlyThe One Question Everyone Asks When You Write a BookI’m a verified author on Medium! Nice, nice and lovely, thank you. Perhaps then I could tell the story of what my book is about — it’s the question anyone asks when you tell them you’ve written something. And so, here is the story I tell. It means a great…Love3 min readLove3 min read
Jan 28Member-onlyHow I Set An Intention And Manifested a Job In Less Than a WeekPre-pandemic, I’d had a hellish few years. Among the life changing events: I lost my mother to lung cancer, my husband lost his job and started a new business, I suffered a challenging but ultimately resolvable health crisis, first one kid graduated high school and went off to college, I…Manifesting3 min readManifesting3 min read
Published inNew Choices·Mar 14, 2022Member-onlyWhen You Don’t Realize That the Choice You’re Making Will Change Your Whole LifeAnd it is exactly what you need — Because you asked Carol Lennox — my most enduring Medium friend — I am writing a piece about a decision I made that changed my life forever. It harkens back to the days when I was a young college freshman. I ended up at the same college my older brother…Love4 min readLove4 min read
Mar 13, 2022Member-onlyBe Who YOU Are As A WriterI’ve been on Medium for a while now. But I’m not an advice giver. You won’t find a list-cicle from me or a “how to” post. Other people are great at offering that kind of assistance to the general reader, but whenever I’ve tried, I’ve always failed miserably. I’m a…Writing2 min readWriting2 min read
Published inFuck Niches·Oct 6, 2021Member-onlyWriting Is Hard. Plagiarism is Cheating.“Borrowing” from another writer is lazy — no matter who that writer is. If you’re a writer, and you haven’t yet read the NYT piece about being a “bad art friend” — please — dash over there and have a read. It is a whole lot of bizarre on all sides. …Plagiarism4 min readPlagiarism4 min read
Published inCrow’s Feet·Sep 29, 2021Member-onlyWhy Respecting Your Elders Is The Clearest Path To WisdomWhat is lost when generational growth is discounted — Recently I read an article about women being more vocal in their doctors’ offices. According to the story in The Sydney Morning Herald, women are speaking up about issues related to peri-menopause and menopause. No longer willing to just accept the challenges of the “change of life” — hot flashes…Baby Boomers4 min readBaby Boomers4 min read
Sep 22, 2021Member-onlyMy Debut Novel Was Published This Month — It Took Me Twenty YearsHere’s why being a late bloomer doesn’t matter a bit — Hold fast to dreams for if dreams die, life is but a broken-winged bird that cannot fly… — Langston Hughes My debut novel came out last week. It’s a story based on the life of my beloved grandparents — two of whom I knew and one I made up. It’s…Writing5 min readWriting5 min read
Aug 14, 2021Member-onlyHow I Learned To Be A Better Parent To My Adult Daughter On A Cross Country Road TripSometimes you just have to trust that the bulk of your work is done. — As I have written about more than a few times already on Medium, I recently returned from a two-week cross-country road trip with my 22-year-old daughter. We drove from LA to NYC with stops along the way. …Parenting4 min readParenting4 min read
Published inNew Choices·Aug 12, 2021Member-onlyOne of the Best Parts of Being on the Road for Two Weeks was My Disconnection from Social Media.I returned a few days ago from a two-week cross country road trip with my daughter. Being out in the world, attached to the earth and marveling at its wonders was a truly soul-edifying experience. There are things I missed about being home — my husband, my son, my dear…Choices2 min readChoices2 min read